Family.....who really FUCKING NEEDS THEM when all they do in the long run is hurt you, tell you they love you and to always be in touch yet when you do, you get ignored and brushed off like a snap of a finger.
That's basically exactly what my family has more less done to my Mom and I.
Since the passing of my Father, my Uncle's been trying to CONTROL us, telling us what to do and when to FUCKING do it.
My Cousin, who I have on Facebook.....the first time me and my Mom left, she called asking what's wrong and bullshit then offered to come down and take us out someplace.
Then she goes behind our back to my Uncle complaining about this and that, umming and ahhhing about the trip to the point where he more less told us to CANCEL which I had done first thing this morning.
You figure she would be 'disappointed' as much as I am about it.....inquiring as to why I had decided to cancel....nope. She saw the message and more less left it like that.
Many of times in my life I've had family promise me things then turn around and stab me in the back over and quite frankly I've seriously had enough. I can't take anyone's word for anything anymore other than a grain of salt. When you lose one thing in your life, you lose it all and quite frankly I'm done with my own family.
The only person I have now in my life is my own mother and that's about it.
Everyone else in my family, they quite frankly NO LONGER EXIST!
You know, it's funny, when I first left Facebook, I got more comments of support from my ONLINE FRIENDS, then members of my own flesh and blood. They showed more concern within the past few weeks than they ever would. Friends care more than your own family! Truly amazing sometimes!